"I'm sorry to destroy your belief in who you think I am, but I have no reason to use my money in the way you've stated, and I'm quite happy in my marriage. Therefore, it would be best if you ceased thinking of me as the man you met." For his part, Richard doesn't seem put off by what Alex is saying. He's comfortable in his marriage and the time she'd mentioned he'd found his wife and had the situation explained to him. Not that the girl needed to know about it.